Dear amazing woman,

WELCOME to Attraction Secrets – attraction & intimacy skills for conscious women.

Intention and background of the Attraction Secrets project:

A vision for bringing together manifestation principles, dissolving lack, understanding vibration, masculine-feminine dynamics, the attraction formula, body language, voice, deepening connection and relationship skills + taking it all to the next level.

This is a program that I created from 15 years of synthesized exploration, discoveries and insights. From Tantra & Sacred Sexuality to flirting tips and what to text when the guy doesn't call. ;) 

Recorded live in a workshop in Amsterdam, with a group of 22 women, and captured for you to dive into and bring into your {love} life.

In Attraction Secrets part 1 you will discover:...

Vibration & Manifestation

✓ The fundamental understanding we need to have in place before we even start to dive into any ‘techniques’ — and without which any ’success’ in our (love)life will be temporary at best.

✓ The importance of becoming the DJ of your life + the malleability of reality…

✓ The true meaning of emotions and how to utilize them as guidance from our Higher Self.

✓ How to dissolve limiting beliefs and shift from lack to abundance.

✓ Why "It’s about the feeling, not the form."

✓ Playful and efficient ways to place a “Amazing Man Custom Order" with the Universe :)

✓ Self love vs. letting go INTO love.

Polarity 101 – Masculine/Feminine Dynamics

— Core understandings the dance of the Masculine and Feminine.

— The pitfalls of equality.

— What is feminine sexiness?

— Expanding your range of energetic embodiment,

— Why you stay in the ‘friend zone’ and how to get out of it..

— What to do if you attract too many men, and the energetic alignment that gives you less quantity and higher quality of men.

— Setting your standards and raising your value.

— Becoming unsusceptible to abuse.

— Understanding ‘beliefs backed up by experience’ and how to up level into a new reality

— Playing with energy: penetrating, receptive or resting in the vertical drop.
 

Deeper topics...

Dissolving lack and forgiving rape.

Transcending fear of death – excited about the next adventure.

Why circumstances are neutral and how we determine our inner experience.

The power of forgiveness.

Responding to a perceived attack with unwavering love.

Learning to set healthy boundaries.

Your Higher Self as your agent... ;)

You don’t have to withdraw the love just because you assert a boundary.

And ultimately: It’s not about “Let me manage life so that I don’t have to feel stuff." But: "Let me relax into a place so deep within me, where I can feel EVERYTHING and still be ok."

 

Attraction Secrets Part 2...

In the second part of this training we dive into these (not so boring) topics:

Desire and Manifestation

Being vibrationally clear about what you want

You always attract the kind of relationship you think that you deserve

How to playfully place an “Amazing Man Custom Order” with the universe

The power of clarity of desire

Key understanding: Manifestation doesn’t take time, it takes alignment

How to come into alignment if what you desire hasn’t shown up

"See limiting beliefs not as obstacles but as opportunities for greater clarity and greater alignment.

How to know when you are in alignment

How to feel aligned also when there’s sadness

What if the partner you desire feels like “out of reach”?

Are you the perfect partner for your perfect partner? 

The Attraction Formula

Objective beauty vs. perceived beauty

Visuals vs. energetics

What makes people attracted to you?

The Attraction Formula:

– Visual attraction

– Polarity/energetic attraction

– Perceived value

– Perceived challenge

– Depth/Connection

How does a man want to feel when he’s with you?...

The most beautiful gifts you can give to a man.

Finding your Bliss Point between comfort/connection and challenge/adventure to magnify and sustain attraction. 

Body language & Voice

2 effortless keys to attractive body language: _______ and ________ .

How WHAT you say means virtually nothing, compared to HOW you say it.

The #1 unattractive body language habit you might unconsciously be doing…

Hand gestures & posture.

What is being subliminally communicated when there’s tension in your voice.

Body language to communicate that you’re open for being approached:

– Individual body language.

– Body language when you're out together with your friends.

 

The Approach

The myth of “If he sees me, and he likes me, then he’ll approach me” (and why the opposite is usually true)...

How to make the move without making the move.

Effortless ways to get him to come up to you:

*Step 1 – Eye Contact*

The Double Look (listen closely to this one, as you can’t ‘see’ the demo, but will be able to get it just from listening).

The subtle detail that creates “the pull”.

Why being yourself and letting it come “naturally" is often bad/incomplete advice, and how to re-train what comes naturally to you.

*Step 2 – Proximity*

*Uber clear invitation for him to come over*

The Wave (takes some confidence but works like magic)
 

Energetic fine tuning...

Q&A: What to do when you’re in a relationship and enjoy dancing/talking with other men, and don’t want to send out the wrong signals or act out of alignment, and also don’t want to close yourself off.

 

The Approach – continued

Effortlessly initiating conversation

Playfully “saying the obvious"

The #1 phrase to use to instantly spark attraction and activate men’s ‘primal attraction triggers’…

(A rejection proof way to initiate conversation).

 

Connection Hacks – little known shortcuts to increased mutual magnetism

Connection hacks to increase connection and attraction.

Connection hack #2 - Increasing attraction by breaking rapport.

Playfully increasing Perceived Challenge.

Bliss point between creating connection and breaking rapport.

“Espresso? Things would never work out between us.” ;)

3 qualities of conversation: Politeness - Deep Connection - Playful Teasing 

Why playing hard to get doesn’t work.

Appreciation/invitation/connection + challenge and playfulness.

Communicating our values and standards through sharing stories.

Perceived value + perceived challenge in combination:
(triple layered compliment, challenge and invitation all in one).

Body language side note: ______ and ______ your body when you hug a guy.

Interested in a work colleague? Say this to him: _______

Connection hack #2 - the time jump 
(use this on one of the first dates, to create the illusion of having known each other for longer):

“Aww, you never do that for me anymore…” / “How come you never get me flowers anymore?” / “Good old times”.

Connection hack #3 – Playful imaginary (innocent) role play

 ("Let’s get a baby chicken, call him Eduardo, raise him Christian…")

 

Eyes, Non-verbal Cues & Touch

How to use your eyes and non-verbal cues for connection and attraction

Tracing the Face Triangle.

Body cues.

 

Tactile feeling and eating.

 

Find the guy, Get the guy, Keep the guy ;) 

Where to go to meet amazing men?

Upping the odds of meeting the kind of man you want

Is attraction always mutual?

Understanding the two types of attraction:

Aligned magnetism (pretty much always mutual)

Idolization/infatuation (pretty much never mutual)

Beliefs backed up by experience.

You’ll repel guys if you try too hard – how to initiate while staying relaxed and in your feminine.

Releasing attachment to outcome.

 

Texting:

Fun and sexy ways to get his number (without "asking").

Why you need to delete the question marks – and use statements instead of questions.

If he doesn't call or text you, text him this...

Man Melting Compliments

Why men and women appreciate different kinds of compliments.

3 Compliments that men love, and that speak to the deeper part in him.

How to activate the 'Provide and Protect' aspect of his masculine core. 

Commitment Secrets

2 Definitions of Commitment (this makes all the difference).

 

Understanding the feminine need for connection and the masculine need for freedom. (Especially in the different ways we solve conflict as men and women.)  

 

What to say if your boyfriend is blatantly flirting with another woman

How to communicate in a way that shows boundaries, appreciation, standards and makes him want to be at his best with you.

Why all of these don't work: Dramatic/emotional, passive aggressive, cold and quiet, flirting with another guy, or being ultra spiritual...

What to say if he’s talking about other women to make you jealous or insecure.

Playfully calling him on it, and then >> redirecting.

 

Invite & Influence

Get a guy to do anything you want with this phrase...

Bypassing the male ego and asking for what you want in intimacy – in a way that strengthens connection and attraction.

Communicating turn-on with words or sound. 

 

 

How to stay in alignment within a relationship

What is a high value woman?

One big mistake women make when getting into a relationship.

And... one big key to sustainable attraction and polarity in long term intimacy.

Lastly:
How to receive compliments to authentically enhance attraction  

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On behalf of your love life, your current or future partner, and the future you — THANK YOU.